Healing Mass

Just this morning, I attended a Healing Mass. In the church all I can see are disabled, convalescent and aged persons hoping to be healed after the ceremony. Comparing myself to these people I can say I'm very much blessed. I am able to ambulate on my own and not suffering much like them. Settled in our bench, the priest started his homily. He said that the mass we are attending is not the one that heals us but rather our belief of getting healed. According to him, oftentimes when we have grave illness like cancer we pass through stages such as denial, anger, depression and later on acceptance. To him, acceptence is the highest stages that will help us recover. I believe him though, because I experience all the stages. As I have observed, my recovery is very slow when I was in denial, anger and depression. In these stages I was stressed out that I was blaming everthing and sometimes thought of ending it all. But when I realized, no matter what I do it is part of me then I learned that acceptance has taken its place. Accepting the fact, that I do have cancer and not able to bare a child, felt a lot lighter and stress free. I was able to think clearly and had so many options in mind on what to do. It also helped me recover even faster because I believe my happy hormones are up helping my system suppress the growth of cancer cells. Acceptance also make us a positive thinker and see ourselves as a normally functioning individual.

Stay happy and enjoy Life!

Cancer Delights

Chocolates, ice cream, yogurts, cakes, mayo, burgers, pizza, hotdogs, chips n dips, fried chicken skin, grilled pork and instant foods hhhhmmmmmmmmm so yummy! I use to eat these stuff before because I was too eager to add some weight. It is undeniable that these food are mouth watering making our saliva drool just by merely imagining it. But a lot of rumors fly, that all food stated above causes cancer. What then are we suppose to eat?

The way I see it, these food are not that harmful if taken in moderation. Like the saying, "too much of everything is bad." I read in diet articles that we need to have a balance diet for us to equalize the needed calories and vitamins in our body. But often we forget and eat enormous amount of food without concidering its effect. Most of the food stated above consist of artificial sugar and spices to taste which contain chemicals that harms our body. Like for instance the monosodium glutamate or commonly called the MSG. If taken ample amount the usual organ affected is our liver and kidney which is responsible for filtering the food that we eat. In that case, without us knowing it will be damage. Adviced by dieticians, meat especially pork and chicken must be taken in small amount. Because now a days hugs and chicken growers use a lot of chemicals to allow growth of animals in a short time. In a matter of 5 months they can sell it to the market. The effect of this chemicals inhance certain hormones in our body producing protein that feeds the cancer cells. That is why it is advisable and highly recommended to eat high fiber food like vegetables and fruits. With these it will help our vital organs detoxify the ingested food and replenish the necessary minerals suited for our body.

Prevention is Better than Cure

How many of us believe, prevention is better than cure? Point in my life when I was not yet affected by cancer, this phrase doesn't matter much to me. I believe then that in every sickness there's always a cure. Prevention is not predicting what is going to happen but rather guarding ourselves from it. Well it's not yet too late for me though. Based on my personal experience, avoiding myself from food or any factors that I know is a feeder to cancer cells helps me prevent from immediate remission of my cancer. There are also treatments available to prevent cancer to occur in a healthy individual. It is call the preventive vaccines, examples are hepatitis B and HPV (human papilloma virus) vaccine. Ask your doctors about it.


Last May 17, 2008 a Cancer Forum organized by General Santos City Obstetrical and Gynecological Society, I was invited to be one of their speaker as a cancer survivor. As I was talking infront of nursing students, doctors and fellow cancer patients it was my objective to reach out to them that the act of avoiding or preventing factors that enhances the disease results to a healthy and wealthy individual. Why? Because as we all experience, sickness is coupled with expenses such as medicines, tests, hospitalization and treatments. Therefore it is wise and before it's too late let us find ways to be a healthy individual and not regret in the future.